Pick Me Girl

A pick me girl is a woman who adopts male serving attitudes and behaviors in a desperate attempt to gain male approval. She distances herself from other women, often by demeaning them, and performs submission, humility, or “chillness” to appeal to male egos. Her entire personality revolves around being the exception, being “not like other girls” in hopes of being chosen in a system that throws scraps to the most obedient female.

Definition

A pick me girl is essentially a self-hating woman. She is willing to betray other women, downplay her own discomfort, and cater to male fantasies, all to be temporarily tolerated by a demographic that sees her as disposable. She cosplays as one of the boys, calls herself “low maintenance,” or parrots incel tier talking points.

Behavior

Pick me girls are characterized by the following behaviors:

Publicly degrading other women, especially feminists or “hoes”

Taking pride in cooking, cleaning, or tolerating abuse without complaint

Laughing at sexist jokes to seem cool or chill

Denying their own needs and boundaries

Criticizing women for wearing makeup, while secretly wearing it themselves

Idolizing male streamers, YouTubers, or Reddit neckbeards and parroting their talking points